Just seeing what is out there... shy at first, but give me time! blond and curvy and outspoken! (in life and other places!). I am strong and independent and a great friend and ally (but don't make me an enemy!!lol) I want all of the benefits of a relationship (great sex, mutual respect, fun times), without all of the messiness; strings, drama, and huge time commitments. 'Friends with benefits' has always fit in well with my life...I'm hoping to find someone who will help me feel that 'fire' again and help me learn a few new things as well!